Tuesday, June 06, 2006

What an inspiration

Catherine of Aragon, first wife of Henry the VIII, wrote this letter to him on her death bed. He had divorced and imprisoned her and remarried more than once. What she suffered at his hands was so much more than infidelity. She took her vows to him so seriously, though, that even after everything, she still considered him her husband and loved him as this beautiful letter shows.

My Lord and Dear Husband,

I commend me unto you. The hour of my death draweth fast on, and my case being such, the tender love I owe you forceth me, with a few words, to put you in remembrance of the health and safeguard of your soul, which you ought to prefer before all worldly matters, and before the care and tendering of your own body, for the which you have cast me into many miseries and yourself into many cares.

For my part I do pardon you all, yea, I do wish and devoutly pray God that He will also pardon you.

For the rest I commend unto you Mary, our daughter, beseeching you to be a good father unto her, as I heretofore desired. I entreat you also, on behalf of my maids, to give them marriage-portions, which is not much, they being but three. For all my other servants, I solicit a year's pay more than their due, lest they should be unprovided for.

Lastly, do I vow, that mine eyes desire you above all things.

1535

1 comment:

Mea Culpa said...

I broke my vows, just as Henry the VIII did. I am so sorry. I love you so much....

the parallel to our situation is so similar. You, even through everything, have proved your devotion to me.

Never again, my love, never again.