Monday, September 18, 2006

Retrouvaille Questions

These are the questions that we were given last. I can't remember which ones you had completed, so I'm going to post them all. When you answer, please put each question in a new posting. I will try to get to at least one of them today. I love you, Darling.

Why do I want to go on living?
I need your help specifically in_____________.
Where do I think God should be in our relationship?
What are the qualities that most attracted me to you?
Do I see and accept you as you really are?
Do you see and accept me as I really am?
What are my feelings about our sexual relationship?

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Your blog keeps getting better and better! Your older articles are not as good as newer ones you have a lot more creativity and originality now keep it up!

Anonymous said...

Thank you for your blog. I just found it and felt like I had just "come home." I know you haven't written in a while and I was curious about how your relationship is now, several years after the "revelation."

I found out about the second woman/affair 2 months ago, after my husband and I attended our Retrouvaille in April 2010. We are healing and moving forward. I felt you captured my feelings and thoughts so completely. I would not have made any improvements or changes.

Thank you for your raw honesty and openness.

It is hard to truly glean the pain and devastation caused by the betrayal of infidelity for those who have not experienced it or were the cause of the affair.

I hope that you continue writing or at the very least update your blog with your current status.

It gives me hope that there maybe a day when the affair no longer defines our relationship but becomes just one of the many bad and good incidents that occurred in our marital history.

Thank you