Wednesday, October 11, 2006

Maybe I already have my answer

His lover knew he was married and just had a child.
She didn't have a problem with him giving all his attention to her.
She purposely tried to get him to act against his beliefs, even though he told her that they shouldn't sleep together again.
When he told her he didn't love her, she kept saying she loved him.
She kept contacting him when she knew he was with me, probably just to get him caught.
She didn't give a damn about his feelings when she suggested a pregnancy but wouldn't confirm it.
She was callous to me on the phone by her "I'm sorry you feel that way" attitude.
She was very eager to tell me everything and threw my husband under the bus.
She didn't care that his world was falling apart that night: only how it affected her.
Although claiming a desire to be just friends if they couldn't be more, offered no support to him in his efforts to fix his marriage.
She blamed everything on him and never acknowledged that she was partially responsible for the situation she was in.
She hid from him the death of the child and would only contact him to demand money.


Maybe I already have my answer as to what kind of person she is.

1 comment:

Mea Culpa said...

There are certain kinds of people who we have promised to not let be a part of our lives. No doubt she is one of them.

With everything you wrote in this post and everything we know, if she feels remorse, it is remorse because she didn't get her way. She desperately wanted to break us up. Then she desperately wanted to hurt us.

I learned about my selfishness from this. She did not. She will always be selfish.

I hate her as much as I hate myself.